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What to Wear After a Breakup

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Getting dumped or leaving someone sucks! Excuse my elementary school language but it’s the truth. It’s happened to me, your loved ones, co-workers, family and most likely you. Most of my clients are referred from matchmaking agencies and have had their heart broken by a divorce or past relationship. Putting effort into your appearance is a key factor in getting over the breakup and falling in love again, meeting new people and giving yourself a fresh start. 

What to wear to lift your spirits:

Uplifting Colors: Yellow, orange, turquoise, pink, blues and kelly green can evoke feelings of health, joy, spirituality, happiness and healing. If you’re not into wearing bright colors take a walk or buy vibrant artwork for your home or office.

Style Coach and personal stylist, Rayne Parvis, in Banana Republic Dress and faux fur vest. Photo by: Ryan P. Morgan.
Style Coach and personal stylist, Rayne Parvis, in Banana Republic Dress and faux fur vest. Photo by: Ryan P. Morgan.

Fun Gym Wear: It’s been proven that exercise releases stress and endorphins that can trigger positive feelings in the body and boost your mood steering you away from a depressive state. If you purchase eye-catching gym wear that you like, you are more likely get your butt to the gym, on a hike with friends or a walk in a park filled with beautiful scenery. Even a brisk walk can make you feel better and start the healing process. How cute, and in shape, is my girl Jeanette Ortega (pictured below)? Don’t you want to go boxing with her?/

Fitness author and gym owner, Jeanette Ortega, from Extreme Results Fitness in Northridge, CA.
Author, fitness guru and gym owner, Jeanette Ortega, from Extreme Results Fitness in Northridge, CA.

Something New: An updated hair style, color, lipstick, statement necklace or outfit, of course, will give you a boost of confidence. We all remember the scene from Sex And The City when Carrie Bradshaw goes darker! Pictured below are a few of my new items. I didn’t go through a breakup but I did want to get a fresh feel for spring!

Kat Von D lipstick and Lucky Star Jewels necklace.
Kat Von D lipstick and Lucky Star Jewels necklace.

In addition to your outer appearance check out Chris Seiter’s podcast and website http://www.ExBoyfriendRecovery.com. I recently was a guest on his show Ex Boyfriend Recovery where we talked wardrobe and all things “exboyfriendy”. You can subscribe to his site to be part of his community. Chris will welcome you with open arms just like he did me! Make sure to tell him I said “hello!”.  

My guest spot:

What to Wear When You See Your Ex (with Rayne Parvis) on Ex Boyfriend Recovery

Happy healing!

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Your Must Have Accessory

Rayne Parvis in bomber jacket and Jord watch. (Photo credit: Ryan P. Morgan).
Rayne Parvis in bomber jacket and Jord watch. (Photo credit: Ryan P. Morgan).

Do you get dressed and think to yourself “something is missing”? Do you have a cool statement piece like a fab watch? A statement watch can save you from digging through your purse or pocket to find your phone and elevate almost any outfit. From jeans to t-shirts to a well-fitted suit a trendy time teller will take your personal style to the next level.

Jord Watch

One patterned/two-toned and one simple choice is recommended. If your outfit is plain, grab the patterned watch. If your suit or outfit is already poppin’ with textures choose a simple silver, platinum or gold watch. The best tip I can give is to invest in a watch you love looking at! I recently got this(pictured above) Jord watch for my man. And since he refused to model, you get me. HAHA! Good ol’ Jord and I teamed up to do an awesome promo and giveaway of $25 & $100. You can hop on over and check them out for your discount! Click here. 

Rayne Parvis in Banana Republic suit, Harley Davidson Shirt, Anne Taylor necklace and Michael Kors watch. (Photo by: Ryan P. Morgan.)

For more fashion tips check out Ultimate Guide to Style: From Drab to Fab! on Amazon.

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3 Tips to a Sultry Valentine’s Day for Haters

What to Wear For Valentine's Day to Feel Festive
 

Valentine’s Day can bring up lonely emotions, pressures of gifting the right present and anxiety. You don’t have to set yourself up for hating or avoiding this day. Here are quick tips to get in the Valentine’s Day spirit if you’re having a night in, a day with your girls or just want to start off this holiday celebrating love regardless of your relationship status. Enjoy!

1. Wear a sexy bra and panty under your clothes. Trust me you will feel amazing through out the day knowing you have a little sexy secret on. 

2. Spritz a new perfume and burn a candle that excites your senses while taking a bath. I recommend my friends over at Corpus Dei Perfumes and bath salts featured on Pumeli . Yummy!

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Mullein & Sparrow bath salts featured on Pumeli.com.

3. Slip into cozy and soft flirty colored socks. And yes, your significant other will thank you if you buy them one too!  

I’ll be spending the evening at home with my husband participating in all the above. Happy Valentine’s Day! 

If you don’t know a bra that would make you feel sexy? Take the bra personality quiz from ThirdLove to find out. I’m the lace balconette! 

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